the Origins of Love

[HereForNow]

Actually, yes...

Things have been mellow and civil. Amy has been around alot too. Hmmmm
Anyhow, I've been on the strait and narrow.

[Jeannette Latoria]

Maybe engage her in a threesome? 

Just kidding!

[HereForNow]

LOL Already thought it but......
I don't think Michelle will go go for it.

I'm diggin the thought process though.

[Jeannette Latoria]

Cool avatar:



A little grim to be you, though, isn't it?  You strike me as such a happy guy.

[Jeannette Latoria]

Usually, anyway! 

[HereForNow]

There! Besides I like my angel of death photo better too. 

[Jeannette Latoria]

So how is your marriage going, any better than last time we talked?

[HereForNow]

Actuall, yes! We have an understanding about our differences and we talk about them more.
Thank you asking.    Very Cool.

[Jeannette Latoria]

If you don't mind my asking, 'understanding,' as in meaning you are going to be more honest with one another, or more faithful to one another..?

[HereForNow]

LOL I don't mind you asking. The answer is both.

[HereForNow]

To love is to not hate. It weakens and cosumes like a fire from within. Slowly it changes our very soul to a blank empty center of envy, and sorrow.
It can ultimately decide your fate for you, because we all know from experience that it never brought anything good. It came from man's first understanding of rage brought about by envy, and/or greed.

Only a thought, but for me it seems to be the only way it could have been apart of our ascent into time and change.
 

[Jeannette Latoria]

To love actually makes you a part of something.

People spend a lot of time being alone. You're born alone, deal with your problems alone, pretty much are alone. 

When you find someone you are on the same wavelength with, then start a family with someone, it gives you a feeling of community.  Despite all the romantic overtures and the passion, when it comes down to it, people fall in love for the basic reason that they don't want to be alone.  Maybe that is why so many people are reluctant to throw their marriages away, even if it isn't all it could be..? They just don't like being alone.

[HereForNow]

To love actually makes you a part of something.

People spend a lot of time being alone. You're born alone, deal with your problems alone, pretty much are alone. 

When you find someone you are on the same wavelength with, then start a family with someone, it gives you a feeling of community.  Despite all the romantic overtures and the passion, when it comes down to it, people fall in love for the basic reason that they don't want to be alone.  Maybe that is why so many people are reluctant to throw their marriages away, even if it isn't all it could be..? They just don't like being alone.

In my case, it's about commitment......
As a parent, more then anything else.
I grew up in a single parent home and it wasn't easy for my mother to raise the 3 of us.

[Volitzer]

To love actually makes you a part of something.

People spend a lot of time being alone. You're born alone, deal with your problems alone, pretty much are alone. 

When you find someone you are on the same wavelength with, then start a family with someone, it gives you a feeling of community.  Despite all the romantic overtures and the passion, when it comes down to it, people fall in love for the basic reason that they don't want to be alone.  Maybe that is why so many people are reluctant to throw their marriages away, even if it isn't all it could be..? They just don't like being alone.

Yeah despite the hurt I have gotten from the incompatible loons at eHarmony I still kept going back.

It's like the ol Veruca Salt song goes "Lonliness is worse."   

[Volitzer]

So Jeannette...

What's new with you on the dating front ?