the Origins of Love - Past, Present or Future

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[Teri Charboneau]

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Rate Member   posted 03-17-2007 10:41 AM                       
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Everytime I sit and thinking my girlfriend pops in my head. Why? Is it becouse I am in love or, is it becouse I am thinking of her?

How can I get it figure out?

-HereIAm
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[Teri Charboneau]

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  posted 03-18-2007 12:28 AM                       
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I don't know,

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The object in life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane."

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[Teri Charboneau]

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To start, I am new to this forum, so hello to all.

One thing to point out before I start is that I am not a "metro" type man (not at 6'3", 260lbs.);however, I have been told that my ideas can come across a feminine. I think that I am mearly 'in touch with my feminine side'(cheesy I know).

I don't feel that two people coming together could ever create love. I think that a relationship between two people is just another spiritual stepping stone to what is actual love. That is, the love of all. Good/Bad, Right/Wrong, Ugly/Beautiful, Rabbit/Cougar, everything. The love of life. How can this be if you "love" just the person you are with.

I firmly believe that people are attracted to other people that pocess traits of the soul that they do not.They may be exact opposites, or it may be just one trait. It may be subconscience or you may be aware of it to a degree, but it is there.People use (not always bad) eachother to attain completeness. to become a whole person. The embodiment of both masculine and feminine.

The best example that I can think of is the "Jock" and the "Cheerleader". The "Jock" would never admit that he even had a feminine side, nor the "cheerleader" a masculine one. A perfect couple to learn (even if it is subconsciencely) from eachother.

Mind you I am not putting it (the percieved notion of "love") down. Just stating my believes on the matter.

To 'HereIAM', if you have to ask, you DO NOT love her.

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[Teri Charboneau]

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Just to clarify,

HereIAm, love is not a thought. Love is the only true FEELING that you can have. If you/we/I have to ask our own feable, inefficient, primative brain for the answer than it will always be NO. Ask your heart (there is what equates to a diminuative brain actually within the heart). It may not know much, but it is always right.

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[Teri Charboneau]

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Rate Member   posted 03-19-2007 11:07 AM                       
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Scout,
First off.....

What do you see in a female? What do u ask for out of a female?

All I ask is that she is truefull with me and loves me for me.
Really if you ask me thats not to much to ask.

When i look into my girlfriends eyes I can see that she loves me deep inside,
Isee her siting there playing with my neices and nephews like they were hers.

That makes me feel good inside?

HereIAm
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[Teri Charboneau]

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  posted 03-19-2007 01:12 PM                       
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MY SUGGESTION TO YOU ALL...Leave Love alone and get a life. Love comes to one who does not seek it. It is different for everyone and is silly to discuss because no one will ever tell the truth. It is something girls talk about and that is why it is overdone. Bless you all...You are in Love with Love. More than anything it is adulation which is selfish if overdone.

Not that one is, but that whereby Is, is.

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[Teri Charboneau]

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  posted 03-19-2007 01:33 PM                       
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I think Orions is right infatuation is what most feel, then that gets old, and what have you got left.

Better to be friends, with something in common, first.

Although we can become used to each other like an old shoe.

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[Teri Charboneau]

 
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  posted 03-19-2007 01:39 PM                       
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You are born alone, and you die alone...what happens in between is the wealth of being — for you have seen yourself in the eye of others a billion times to realize...you are the Other. I have become my wife because I am in coherency with her thoughts...we are one. Seek this, and you will be happy. Seek beyond this, and you will see the true universe. Seek beyond this, and you will be with God.

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[Teri Charboneau]

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No, you're born from the mother!

Also, if you look into the mirror do you see yourself or the other!?

Being in coherency with someone else's thoughts does not deny and/or dismiss personal reality!!!

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[Teri Charboneau]

 
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  posted 03-19-2007 01:50 PM                       
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Dream on...
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[Teri Charboneau]

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Maybe you don't have a reflection in the mirror!?

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[Teri Charboneau]

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  posted 03-19-2007 04:35 PM                       
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my husband and I think the same thoughts,

I sure would not want to start over again with another, it takes to many years to grow on each other.

And it takes work, love is not just sexual attraction, once that levels off then the real game begins,

Yes it is two becoming one, think about this

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[Teri Charboneau]

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  posted 03-19-2007 05:37 PM                       
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I am everything he created wire...I am tested and he still loves me for I have faith but I also know I am my God's warrior. Lay Hold!
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[Teri Charboneau]

 
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> I am everything he created wire...

..and then I thought that you represented nothingness, nothing, zero (0)!?

> I am tested and he still loves me for I have
> faith but I also know I am my God's warrior.
> Lay Hold!

Very good, it is good to feel loved and tested... 

From one warrior to another, one fights for what one believes...and loves...

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