Message #20023

[Aristotle]

Aristotle- I know that had to really suck, but it was probably for the better you didn't persue it.
Maturity issues are usually going to arise. How old do you think she was?

Probably around 22. I don't exaggerate her appeal, she was, in a word,  "cute," and adorable. Those are the words that most come to mind when I think of her.  Maturity issues do tend to arise when you are with someone that young, and, if you have nothing in common other than the initial attraction, of course, things tend to fade.

There is something to be said for being ruled by simple attraction, though. We were, each of us made, sexual creatures, to fight against that, would be to fight against our nature.  When one gets older, of course, you tend to have more control over your desires, but, make no mistake, the desire, in and of itself, is not evil.  There would be very few people if the ends were only to exercise self-control.